Imagine having a conversation with someone who needs to convince you of a certain problem and get them to support you. What would you do if his voice got louder and louder while telling you about his problem, he started yelling, used nervous and aggressive language, insulted you when you presented a contrary idea and humiliated you?

To this questionI would keep listening carefully, I would be even more convinced of what he said.‘I don’t know if there’s anything to say. However, when this scenario is experienced in a crowded conference room or on a program with a large audience, it seems to work at some point, not during an ordinary conversation…

Politicians often resort to this tense and vulgar language; this language of communication is also accepted by the masses… People inevitably wonder why and how.

Of course, scientists have thought about the answer to this question and have done a lot of research. According to these studies, the answer lies in human psychology.

To understand this, let’s answer this first; Why does someone become aggressive, swear and speak rudely?

Actually, the answer is simple. When we are angry, when we are angry, when we feel wronged, we have trouble controlling our language and we can become rude. Even though swearing and being rude with aggressive language is not the right behavior, it is totally related to our emotions and’a real reactionis

That is it, the part that is useful for politicians who use this kind of communication language Actually. Because people who listen to him and share common views, consider the swear words mixed between the words they hear and the general attitude of communication as real reactions based on emotions, coming from the mouth of someone who “is sure that he is right, angry because he has been wronged”. They empathize more easily and feel closer to the politician who gets angry at him over a subject they are angry about.

Moreover, studies show that such a language of communication, It can make politicians’ rhetoric stronger.

But when it comes to convincing, the color changes;

Because an idea that is politically opposed is moreover defended with inappropriate language, with heat and anger, eliminates the possibility of meeting at the center point by listening and understanding. This time with the opposite effect. The message is not credible.; The problem is how it is told rather than what is being told.

Moreover, the curses and insults used with this foul and angry language are interpreted as divisive language. This too increases polarization; In addition, for some segments of society, offensive statements are making things worse, leading to discrimination based on class, race and gender.

The profuse use of this language by today’s “you versus us” politics shows that the goal is not to persuade or appease, but to attempt to make people believe in justice through emotional exploitation.

However, one must remember that On this planet where billions of people liveespecially on social and social issuesThere can be no question of a supplementary direct and a single right.. This shows us why it’s so important to be inclusive rather than combative.

He wishes for a future in which parties do not get confused, social problems are the subject of solution-oriented discussions by well-equipped politicians and insults, swear words and shouting gradually come to an end; as people who are constantly exposed to these treatments We wish you some rest.